Pyar Me Dhoka Mile to Kya Karna Chahiye – Khud Ko Kaise Sambhale

Pyar Me Dhoka Mile to Kya Karna Chahiye: Jab aap kisi se pyar karte hai ya kisi ke sath relationship me hote hai to wo shaksh aapki jindagi se judi har cheej me shamil ho jata hai. wah aapke life ka ek aham hissa ban jata hai, Aapka har din adhura rah jata hai agar aap use na dekhe. Jab ham kise se saccha pyar karte hai to ham har wo kaam karna chahte hai jisase use khushi mile. Us par ham khud se jyada bharosha karna lagte hai. Usi koi bhi galti hame nhi dikhti.

Lekin jab wah hamare pyar ke bharose ko todkar hamare dil hamari bhawnao se khelkar hame dhokha dekar hame chhodkar kisi aur ke paas chala jata hai to wah waqt dard bhara hota hai. Us waqt insaan buri tarah heart hota hai. But aaj ham aapko kuchh aise point bata rahe hai jisase aapko koi problem nhi hogi agar aapka lover aapko heart karke jata hai. janiye kaise kare apne ko happy?

Pyar Me Dhoka Mile to Kya Karna Chahiye - Khud Ko Kaise Sambhale
Pyar Me Dhoka Mile to Kya Karna Chahiye – Khud Ko Kaise Sambhale

Pyar Me Dhokha Melne Par Khud Ko Kaise sambhale?

Dil tutne ke dard ko sirf wahi shaksh samajh sakta hai jiska kabhi dil tuta ho ya jisne kabhi dhokha khaya ho. ye baat to hai agar aapka dil kisi ne tod diya to use sambhalna bahut hi mushkil hai. aur kabhi kabhi is dard se bahar aane me kafi time lag jata hai. Lekin is dard se bahar nikalna namunkin nahi hai. Thodi effect aur kuchh tariko ko apnakar dil tutne ke gam se bahar nikla ja sakta hai.

Accept the Truth

Jisase aap bahut pyar karte the, beshak uske sath aapka gahra sambandh tha aur wo aapki zindagi ke har ek pal me shamil tha, lekin ab hakikat kuchh aur hai. Ab aapki life change ho chuki hai. Is sachhai ko accept kare ki aapka rishta ab khatm ho chuka hai. Wo shaksh bahut door chala gaya hai aapki life se. Ab aapko sari zindagi uske bina gujarni hai aur aapke dil ka us par ab koi farq nhi padta isliye jaldi se jaldi use bhulakar apni energy, apna time aur dhyan apne sapno ko pura karne me lagao apni zindagi ko behatar banane me lagao.

Uske Jane Ka Afsos Na Kare

Dil todkar jane wale ka kya afsos kare? afsos to uska kiya jata hai jo aapko bhawnao ko samjhe aapko khushiya de. Jo aapki bhawnao ke sath khelkar aapko dhokha dekar aapko dar hi dard dekar gya ho aise sathi ka kya afsos karna? wo aapke layak tha hi nahi. Isliye aise dhokhebaaj ko dilo aur dimaag se nikal de jaldi se jaldi.

Remove old Memories In Your Mind

Agar aap baar-baar uske sath gujre lamho ko yaad karenge ya purani bato ko ya kisi couple ko dekhkar ya movie me dekhakar judi bato ko bar-bar yaad karenge ko aap khud ko jyada pareshan hi karenge aur apne dard ko aur badhayenge. Isliye use aur usase judi bato ko jaldi se jaldi bhulne ki koshish kare. Aur har time uske bare me sochkar dukhi na hoye. Iske bajay apni zindagi me aage badhne ke apne sapno ko pura karne ke bare me soche.

Delete All Things

Usase judi hui har cheeje jab-jab aapke samne aayengi tab-tab aapko us bewafa ki yaad aayegi aur har baar aap dukhi honge. Isliye usase judi har cheejo ko ya to wapas kar do ya delete kar do. Uske photo, greetings, gifts, contact No, emails, messages sab delete kar de. Aapko aisa karne me thoda takleef hogi but aane wale time ke liye ye bahut faydamand hoga.

Think Positive

Agar usne aapka dil toda hai, aapko dhokha diya hai aur aapko chhodkar chala gya hai ya chali gai hai to iska matlab hai ki wo aapke layak tha thi hi nhi. Agar wo aapke layak hota aur aapko samajhta to aapko kabhi chhodkar nhi jata. Acha hua wo jaldi hi aapke life se chala gya so ab kuchh positive soch rakhe aur apne life ko aur happy banaye.

Make Busy Yourself

Jitna jyada aap apne aapko busy rakhenge usase aapko us dhokhebaj ki koi yaad aapko pareshan nhi karegi. Busy hone ke liye aap Dance karna, dosto ke sath, khelna, Movie dekhana, Padhna, ghumna etc kare. Office me koi naya kaam lekar khud ko busy kar sakte hai.

Nashe Se Door Rahe

Aksar dekha jata hai to aadmi jyada nirash ya tanav me aa jata hai to wah nasha karne lagta hai. Nasha karne se aap us waqt to use bhul jayenge but aapko pata nhi hai ki use bhulne ke chakkar me aap apne sharir ko kitna nuksaan pahunchate hai. Us shaksh ke chakkar me aap apni puri life ko hospital me hi bitate rah jaoge.

Apne Sapno Ka Na Chhode

Friends ab aapka faisla hai aapko uski yado me hi rona hai ya apne sapno ko bada karke ek bada aadmi banana hai aur use dikhana hai ki thik hua tere jane se me kitna khushhal hun. So make your goal and be a strong person.

Mujhe Har Haal Me Is Dard Ko Bahar Nikalna Hi Hai

Dosto ek truth ye bhi hai ki jyadatar log dhokha dene ke baad aapke bare me sochte bhi nhi hai. Aur aap kis haal me hai ya kis dard se gujar rahe hai is baat se unhe koi fark nhi padhta hai. Isliye is baat ki ummind rakhna chhod do ki wo aapse aapka haal puchenge.

So jitni jaldi se jali ho sake unke bare me sochna bilkul band kar de. Jitni jaldi ho us bewafa ko bhul jaye. Jab wo bewafa mujhse door hoke khush hai to kyun na me bhi use bhulkar apne life ko happy easy way me bitaun.

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  • aap itna aasani se to apne block me likh diye bahut muskil hai bhulna ham8 salo se ek dusre se pyar karte hai par o mujhe enor karne lai o kahti hai koi aur h ai jo mujhe pyar karta haai jabki ham ek pal kabhi nahi bhule ha ye bat apko bata raha hu ki in 8 salo me ham muskil se 3 ya 4 bar mile aur o jis ladke ka jekr karti hai o uske yaha se 5 km ki duri par rahta hai omujhse baat tak karna nahi chahti pahle itna pyar karti thi ki kahti ham bha k r shadi kr lene kya pyar name ki koi chez hoti hai aar ha to mai kahuna nahi bahut aaisi bate hai okahti hai mai apse bhi pyar krti hu aur usse bhi mai aaise do rhao par khada hu na je sakt\a na mar sakta hu meri jendji ulajh aai hai kya ladkiya hamesha se dhoka deti hai payar me jaan hamesha ladke h i dete hai aaj mai bahut dard me h u thik tarah se tipe nahi kar pa rraha hu ye bate mai kisi se sear nahi kar sakta aapse kah kar man k o halka karne ka kosish kar raha hu 8sal ka pyar 8din me khatm ojhuth bol rahi mera pyar uske liye koi mane nahi rakhta mai bhut dur hu o pass o har din usse milti h mujhse bat kiye huye use time nahi milta aur hamesha cll waiti n jata hai jab bhi mai cll karna chahu aap batao kya karu___- helph me

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    • SAME STORY MERI BHI HAI BHAI AAJ JI LADKIYA BUS SEX SMJHTI H AUR ENJOYMENT INGE BUS PAAS KA LDKA HI CHIYE HOTA H DUR WALA TABHI USE KRI HA JAV INKE GAHR M BOUNDATION HO BOUNDATION HATTE HI YE LADKIA KITTA PURANA RELN KYU NA HO TOD KR NEW PASA WALE K PASS CHALI JATI H MERA BHI 6YR KA RELN TH FV SE BUT WO IGNORE KNR ELAGI JUTH BOLNE LAGI AAJ M BHI TUNHRI TRHA PROB MAI HU BUT USKO KOI MATLAB NHI H BECz wo kud ho sahi sabit kr k uss pass ladke se enjiy krne m buay h aise ladki lyf m succes nhi krti ..jaisa krta h insan waise hi bharra h

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  • Muje March g.f ne dhoka diya h.. Or m use apni jaan se b jada chahta hu..m use maf kane ko b tyar hu mgr vo aana nahi chahti h ..m kiya kru m uske bina nahi rah sakta

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  • bilkul Sahi hai.. ….aisa he karana chahiye

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  • thankyou so much sir madam app ke duwara likhe hue is baaton ko jarur follow karunga aur use bhul jawunga khus rahunga behtar person banke dikhawunga……

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  • Ye to love ke bare me bataya aapne.
    But agar dosti me dhokha mile to kya karna chahiye.

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  • Agr koi musibat m ho or uski gf use chor k kisi or k pas chali jaye or pir bhi vo use bole ki pyar krti hu or jb vo insan bapis thik ho jaye or uski gf apne kiye p sarmida ho to use kya krna chahiye

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  • aapke comment se mujhe koi fark nahi pada, mai kuch bhi karu mujhe har samay yaad aati hai, jaate jaate us ne mujhe bahut bura bhala kaha.
    mai uski life khrab kar dunga, maine us ke liye apne ghar mai ladai kari, mere sath 4 saal rahne ke baad wo mujhe rota hua chod gai , us ko barbaad kar dunga.

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  • Meri g.f. ne to mujhe bhut bada dhokha diya WO mujhse kehti ki me work kr rhi hu isliye apse baat nhi kr skti but uska no. Busy ata tha mene jb uske no. Ka details nikala to pta chala uska ek purane friend se hi uska chhaker chal rha he aur aur jb mene usse in SB chijo ke bare me pucha to usne bola me usse pyar krti hu tumse nhi
    Ek time tha jb WO mujhse sadi krna chahti rhi aur aaj baat v nhi krna chahti kya kru sir boliye

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  • Mere sat bhi kuch esa hi hua vo kisi or ke sat hai sayed per me ab apne sapna or apni family ke bare me sochta hu mujha use ab ye dikhna hai ki usne kya choda hai mujha bes ab apne further ko better krna hai

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